The Control Freak’s Trust: The BDIT Strategy

The Control Freak’s Trust: The BDIT Strategy

Traditional trusts treat heirs like children. The BDIT treats them like CEOs. How to lock your assets in a fortress against divorce and lawsuits, while retaining the power to invest, spend, and manage them yourself.

Dec 29, 2025 Code Authority: Team BMT RETIREMENT > ESTATE PLANNING

Executive Summary

  • The “Trust Fund Baby” Problem: Most parents set up trusts where a bank acts as Trustee and the child is a passive beneficiary. The child must ask the bank for money. This destroys the child’s entrepreneurial spirit and leaves them powerless.
  • The Solution (BDIT): The **Beneficiary Defective Inheritor’s Trust (BDIT)** flips the script. Instead of the parent creating the trust for the child, the **child (Beneficiary) effectively creates the trust for themselves** (using a legal loophole involving a “seed gift” from a third party, like a parent).
  • The “Have Your Cake” Outcome:
    1. Control: You (the Heir) act as the **Investment Trustee**. You decide to buy Tesla stock, real estate, or crypto. No bank permission needed.
    2. Protection: Because you “sold” assets to the trust rather than gifting them, the assets are technically not yours. If you get divorced or sued, the creditors cannot touch the trust assets.

The “Crummey” Mechanic

The Legal Magic: How can you be the beneficiary of a trust you control, without the IRS including it in your estate tax?
👉 The Seed: A parent gifts $5,000 to the trust. You (the child) are given the right to withdraw this $5,000 for 30 days (Crummey Power). You don’t withdraw it. By letting the power lapse, you become the “Grantor” for income tax purposes (paying the tax), but the trust assets remain outside your estate for death tax purposes.

Mechanic: The Sale to Yourself

Control
You are Trustee
Freeze
Growth is Tax-Free
Access
“Beneficial Use”
1/3 Rule
Seed Capital Req.

Simulation: Entrepreneur Heir ($10M Startup Idea)

Wealth & Control Profile
Own in Own NameHigh Risk
Exposed: Divorce takes 50%, Creditors take the rest. 40% Estate Tax on growth.
Bank TrusteeLow Control
Handcuffed: Bank Trustee refuses to invest in your startup. You have 0% control.
BDIT StrategyMax Control + Safety
CEO Status: You control the checkbook. Assets are lawsuit-proof & tax-free forever.
Feature IDGT (Parent Created) BDIT (Heir Created)
Primary Beneficiary Usually Children/Grandkids YOU (The Heir)
Trustee Control Independent / Bank YOU (Investment Trustee)
Asset Protection Strong Strong (Self-Settled*)

*Note: BDITs must be established in DAPT-friendly states (NV, SD, DE) to ensure asset protection works for a “Self-Settled” trust.

“The BDIT allows you to live in the house, drive the car, and spend the money, but legally own nothing. It is the ultimate expression of the Rockefeller maxim: ‘Own nothing, but control everything.'”

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