Be the Bank: Intra-Family Loans & The AFR Strategy

Be the Bank: Intra-Family Loans & The AFR Strategy

Stop giving your children money; lend it to them. How to use the “Applicable Federal Rate” (AFR) to transfer millions to the next generation without triggering a single cent of Gift Tax.

Dec 29, 2025 Code Authority: Team BMT RETIREMENT > ESTATE PLANNING

Executive Summary

  • The “Gift” Trap: You give your daughter $2M to buy a house. The IRS views this as a taxable gift. It eats up $2M of your Lifetime Exemption. Do this a few times, and you expose your estate to a 40% death tax.
  • The Solution (The Family Bank): Instead of gifting, you **lend** the $2M to her. You charge the absolute minimum interest rate required by the IRS, known as the **AFR (Applicable Federal Rate)**.
    👉 Why? A loan is not a gift. It uses **$0 Exemption**.
  • The Arbitrage (Wealth Transfer): If the AFR is 4% and the house appreciates at 8%, the spread (4%) is wealth transferred to your daughter **tax-free**. She keeps the growth; you just get your principal back plus a tiny bit of interest.

The “Paper Trail” Requirement

IRS Red Flag: If you lend money but never collect interest, the IRS calls it a “Sham Loan” and reclassifies it as a Gift.
👉 The Defense: You must act like a real bank.
1. Sign a formal **Promissory Note**.
2. Secure it with collateral (e.g., a Mortgage on the house).
3. Actually collect the interest payments annually. (You can gift the interest back later, but the structure must be rigid).

Mechanic: The AFR Hurdle Rates

Short-Term
0-3 Years (Low Rate)
Mid-Term
3-9 Years (Med Rate)
Long-Term
9+ Years (High Rate)
Arbitrage
Asset Rtn > AFR

Simulation: Funding a $2M Startup Investment

Impact on Lifetime Exemption
Outright Gift$2M Exemption Used
Costly: You burned $2M of your tax shield instantly. Future tax risk increased.
Intra-Family Loan$0 Exemption Used
Efficient: No gift reported. Assets moved. You act as the senior lender.
Estate FreezeGrowth Outside Estate
Strategy: All future appreciation (if > AFR) belongs to the child, tax-free.
Feature Commercial Bank Loan Family Bank (AFR Loan)
Interest Rate Market Rate (High + Spread) IRS Minimum (Lowest Legal)
Approval Credit Score / Income Check Relationship / Character
Interest Income Goes to Bank Stays in Family (Parent)

“Rich families do not liquidate assets to pay for a child’s house; they encumber assets. By becoming the lender, you teach financial discipline (repayment) while transferring wealth (appreciation) under the radar of the IRS.”

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